5 Steps For Creating a Great Online Dating Email
by Scott Patterson
A couple of days ago, I discussed how a great online dating profile can help you meet women in your area. If you know theright way to display a confident attitude on your profile, then you'll have LOTS of women contact you.
But there is ONE major problem when it comes to Internet dating. While it's easy to find lots of interesting girls, getting them interested in YOU can be quite challenging.
When it comes to online dating, it all comes down to one thing:
THE FIRST EMAIL!
When they're online, women judge men on two factors: Their profile and their first email.
If both aren't TOP notch, then your chances of talking to an attractive women will be met with failure.
Remember this. A woman can receive hundreds of emails from guys in a month. If you don't stand out in a positive way, then she'll probably delete your message and move on to the next guy.
That's why it's important to craft the PERFECT initial email. By starting on the right foot, you'll attract a woman's attention and make her interested.
As you can see, it's REALLY important to create a great first message. And in today's lesson, you can learn about an easy five step plan to make this happen.
Step 1- Create a Great Profile
The perfect introduction starts with your profile. Since women ALWAYS check out your personal information before responding, it's crucial that you make your profile really interesting. In fact, it should give a glimpse into an exciting and interesting life.
However there is one thing you want to avoid. Don't put TOO much information in your profile.
When women scrutinize profiles, there basically looking for "deal breakers". These are any traits or characteristics which conflict with her lifestyle. If they discover something they don't like, they'll move on to some other man. So cover the basics, but don't list everything about you.
Instead of providing a detailed profile, you should write about interesting things, while being a little mysterious.
Step 2- Give a Quality Introduction
The first words you write to a woman will be your initial impression. So you have to make it count!
One major problem guys have is to sound too NEEDY or low status in their introduction. In order to stand out from other guys, you MUST come across as a confident AND interesting person.
What I recommend is to immediately demonstrate high status by cracking a joke and/or giving a cocky/funny comment about her profile. Feel free to tease her (about her picture, headline, something she wrote, etc.) a little in a funny way, but also let her know about something you found intriguing in her profile.
Step 3- Talk About Yourself
After you give an introduction, you want to talk a LITTLE about yourself. Here's where you provide a brief overview of your interests and what makes you stand out from other guys.
Remember that talking about yourself is a form of selling. So you have to be convincing about what makes you unique.
As I said before, it's important to be a little mysterious. You don't want to tell everything about yourself. Revealing more about you should be done as you get to know each other.
Step 4- Talk About Her and Qualify
Once you briefly introduce yourself, you want focus on her again. Now the common mistake guys make is to talk about how wonderful a girl sounds in her profile.
Instead of giving a lot of compliments and sounding needy, you want to mix things up. You want to talk about the positive things you like about her, but also be a little challenging.
If you see something that might be out of the ordinary, you tell her that you're "not sure" about her. In a way, by DISAGREEING with some things on a woman's profile, you're putting her a position where she has to QUALIFY herself.
Step 5- Give Her a Call to Action
Finally, you want to tell her EXACTLY what she wants to do.
Another mistake guys make in their introduction is to close their email in a weak manner. For instance, one of the more common comments is: "Write back if you're interested".
Always remember that your closing remark should prompt her to action. In other words, you want to EXPLICITLY tell her to email you back (or call).
In sales this is called a Call to Action. So if you want her to respond, then you finish qualifying, then give tell her that if she's up for a challenge then she has to write back to you.
With online dating, your initial email will be your first impression. So you have to make it count.
If you pay close attention to the five steps I discussed in this post, then you'll have the foundations of an excellent first message.
So if you want to improve your chances, then I recommend you implement the six elements I discussed in this email and create a profile that'll instantly attract the attention of EVERY woman!
To your success with women,
Scott Patterson
ChickMagnet101.com
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How Many of These Online Dating Mistakes Do You Still Make?
If you're making ANY of these critical errors, you're still missing out on dozens, maybe hundreds of beautiful women you could be with tonight.
As you're reading this, dozens of guys are chasing after the same beautiful and desirable women that you want online - and striking out! They fail miserably because they make the same boneheaded mistakes time after time.
What are these mistakes? Click here to find out...
A couple of days ago, I discussed how a great online dating profile can help you meet women in your area. If you know theright way to display a confident attitude on your profile, then you'll have LOTS of women contact you.
But there is ONE major problem when it comes to Internet dating. While it's easy to find lots of interesting girls, getting them interested in YOU can be quite challenging.
When it comes to online dating, it all comes down to one thing:
THE FIRST EMAIL!
When they're online, women judge men on two factors: Their profile and their first email.
If both aren't TOP notch, then your chances of talking to an attractive women will be met with failure.
Remember this. A woman can receive hundreds of emails from guys in a month. If you don't stand out in a positive way, then she'll probably delete your message and move on to the next guy.
That's why it's important to craft the PERFECT initial email. By starting on the right foot, you'll attract a woman's attention and make her interested.
As you can see, it's REALLY important to create a great first message. And in today's lesson, you can learn about an easy five step plan to make this happen.
Step 1- Create a Great Profile
The perfect introduction starts with your profile. Since women ALWAYS check out your personal information before responding, it's crucial that you make your profile really interesting. In fact, it should give a glimpse into an exciting and interesting life.
However there is one thing you want to avoid. Don't put TOO much information in your profile.
When women scrutinize profiles, there basically looking for "deal breakers". These are any traits or characteristics which conflict with her lifestyle. If they discover something they don't like, they'll move on to some other man. So cover the basics, but don't list everything about you.
Instead of providing a detailed profile, you should write about interesting things, while being a little mysterious.
Step 2- Give a Quality Introduction
The first words you write to a woman will be your initial impression. So you have to make it count!
One major problem guys have is to sound too NEEDY or low status in their introduction. In order to stand out from other guys, you MUST come across as a confident AND interesting person.
What I recommend is to immediately demonstrate high status by cracking a joke and/or giving a cocky/funny comment about her profile. Feel free to tease her (about her picture, headline, something she wrote, etc.) a little in a funny way, but also let her know about something you found intriguing in her profile.
Step 3- Talk About Yourself
After you give an introduction, you want to talk a LITTLE about yourself. Here's where you provide a brief overview of your interests and what makes you stand out from other guys.
Remember that talking about yourself is a form of selling. So you have to be convincing about what makes you unique.
As I said before, it's important to be a little mysterious. You don't want to tell everything about yourself. Revealing more about you should be done as you get to know each other.
Step 4- Talk About Her and Qualify
Once you briefly introduce yourself, you want focus on her again. Now the common mistake guys make is to talk about how wonderful a girl sounds in her profile.
Instead of giving a lot of compliments and sounding needy, you want to mix things up. You want to talk about the positive things you like about her, but also be a little challenging.
If you see something that might be out of the ordinary, you tell her that you're "not sure" about her. In a way, by DISAGREEING with some things on a woman's profile, you're putting her a position where she has to QUALIFY herself.
Step 5- Give Her a Call to Action
Finally, you want to tell her EXACTLY what she wants to do.
Another mistake guys make in their introduction is to close their email in a weak manner. For instance, one of the more common comments is: "Write back if you're interested".
Always remember that your closing remark should prompt her to action. In other words, you want to EXPLICITLY tell her to email you back (or call).
In sales this is called a Call to Action. So if you want her to respond, then you finish qualifying, then give tell her that if she's up for a challenge then she has to write back to you.
With online dating, your initial email will be your first impression. So you have to make it count.
If you pay close attention to the five steps I discussed in this post, then you'll have the foundations of an excellent first message.
So if you want to improve your chances, then I recommend you implement the six elements I discussed in this email and create a profile that'll instantly attract the attention of EVERY woman!
To your success with women,
Scott Patterson
ChickMagnet101.com
******************************************************************************
How Many of These Online Dating Mistakes Do You Still Make?
If you're making ANY of these critical errors, you're still missing out on dozens, maybe hundreds of beautiful women you could be with tonight.
As you're reading this, dozens of guys are chasing after the same beautiful and desirable women that you want online - and striking out! They fail miserably because they make the same boneheaded mistakes time after time.
What are these mistakes? Click here to find out...
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